Polarity and leadership of the masculine is only done safely through the Cosmic Mirror of Christ Sophia.
If Christ Sophia is where you submit energetically and are inspired from on a heart/soul level, you are safe, you are truly holding the Law that the feminine will happily align to and become her highest self embodiment over Divine Timing.
If you are not led by Christ, you are trying to create an extension of your own ego and idea of what femininity looks like In order to make yourself comfortable. Extending your own ego as the highest level of leadership without leading her to Christ is unfathomably arrogant and misleading. Do not take the Creator out of the equation and his intentions for the feminine to become her true self…